04.10.2006

Damn your eyes!

Satan is having another conniption. She says, once more, that we are not feeding our children, but, most importantly, we're not feeding Ultraboy.

It was possible, had he continued to goof off, that he might've missed dinner. Once. I have to have some means of punishing him for these things, and I can't spank him. Yelling has no effect. And it would be once.

Then she brought up the banana bread thing again... the one where, all summer, all I fed my kids was banana bread. Even though a CPS agent came out and noted that, although our house was a wreck, we had plenty of food and evidence that it was getting eaten by kids (aside from the banana bread).

An interesting part of the conversation went like this:

"And you know that paper you're reading?"
"Was reading, but yeah."
"It says that every time there is a conflict, I win. And that you are a liar."
"I don't care if it says I'm a devil-worshipping baby-eater. Stick to the issue."
"You are a devil-worshipper. I've heard about that church you go to."
"Well, at least you're admitting I attend church now."

The entire run of the conversation was her yelling at me, and I'm simply not up to taking it. I came so close to tears it's not even funny. But, if it goes to court, I bet that I wind up in chains, or more broke than I am, and without Ultraboy.

Because this state would rather see a mother who will let her kid be anally raped nightly have custody than a father who struggles to motivate the same kid with difficulty.

2 Kommentare:

Shannon hat gesagt…

Perky- Quit talking to her on the phone. Email only. If she isn't going to speak civilly, she isn't going to speak to you. She is baiting you into another court action. Don't fall for the trap. I bet she's got you taped.

Ultraboy needs to not be feeding the fire. He seems to give her the fuel to do it. He may be getting a fix from watching the struggle over him. Not that you are putting him in the middle, but he needs to be accountable if he's sitting back while you are being lashed and grinning as if he's punishing you for making him do his homework.

Timmy hat gesagt…

I managed to talk to her civilly the last time, but at the end I told her that I no longer felt comfortable in this conversation, and that I'd have to put the phone down and walk away. She could email me with any further questions or statements.

So, yeah. No more rope.