I talked to my wife today and we talked about... stuff. Maybe it's me, but I was getting a very negative feel from her. It's difficult to place, but that one conversation tells me a few things about the future of our relationship:
She's really not interested in continuing with it. This is sometimes not the case, so I want to make it plain that this conversation specifically felt this way.
We... if we are to continue... no. I think this is something I better save for later.
She says that my lack of trust for her is a transference of some sort... that I'm projecting her inability to trust me onto her. I'd say that it's indicative of something that has been wrong with our relationship for a while as far as I was concerned, and may have something to do with my innate fear of her, which may be a result of jumping into a relationship with a dominant woman so soon after leaving a relationship with a dominant woman. There just might be something to the idea of transference, but it might not have to do with whether she can trust me or not.
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